<\/p>\n\n\nAn ex-colleague of mine asked me to write something on women in Pakistan and at that very moment, I found myself in a crossroads of thoughts about how and why women have been second class citizens in the world. So, the first thought that crossed my mind was \u2018Women Suffrage\u2019, which was about the voting rights of women in America.<\/p>\r\n
\n\n\n\nYes, you read it right; it’s the United States of America, the most developed country in the world could not give equal rights to women until recently (the 1960s). This does not mean that Pakistan is by any means better than America in the provision and exercising of equal rights to women.<\/p>\r\n
\n\n\n\nConstitutionally women do have rights but it is far from reality. For instance, in the recent General Elections 2018, PK-23 Shangla \u2013 Election Commission of Pakistan (ECP) ordered re-election as women’s voter turnout was less than 10%, which is against the law.<\/p>\r\n
\n\n\n\nWhat does that benchmark mean? To me, it means that even the government knows that women’s voter turnout will be far less than men, which is why a benchmark has to be there to ensure women’s participation. Even then, women are not participating in the election process, why? Are they opting for it or they are forced to stay at home? I think both are valid reasons for low participation. I\u2019ll explain why.<\/p>\r\n
\n\n\n\nPakistan is a patriarchal society and everything revolves around men; may it be breadwinning, decision making for the household, or ones\u2019 self. Men are the real deal in Pakistan. Similarly, gender roles have also been strictly defined in favor of men in Pakistan. All these norms and values of a religious and patriarchal society are embedded within us to an extent where even women are found to be propagating and imposing these very values and so-called rules on themselves and other women.<\/p>\r\n
\n\n\n\nThe concept of nature and nurture come into play at this very moment. I believe that it is not the nature of men or women, rather both men and women are nurtured in a way that makes us a patriarchal society. By nurture, I mean that women also teach men to be superior or privileged than women from the very beginning.<\/p>\r\n
\n\n\n\nEvery female must remember her mother sparing, (the leg piece of chicken) \u2018THE ACHI BOTI\u2019 for the brother and not allowing them to eat it even if the brothers are not at the dinner table.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\r\n \n\n\n\nTherefore, patriarchy is not imposed by men alone; women have equally participated in it. Similarly, both men and women must and can work together to make this society equal for both men and women. It is us who have to work together to \u2018nurture\u2019 our coming generations in a way that both men and women are equal from birth till death.<\/p>\r\n \n\n\n\nWomen are progressing in every profession such as \u2013 doctors, engineers, politicians, sports, business and you name it. We find women in every single profession in Pakistan. So, disappointed people must understand that every society grows with time and so will Pakistan. InshAllah.<\/p>\r\n \n\n\n\nLet us work together to make it a progressive Pakistan!!! \n\n\n\nContributed by:\u00a0Waqas Butt<\/strong>, Researcher & Social Activist\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" An ex-colleague of mine asked me to write something on women in Pakistan and at that very moment, I found myself in a crossroads of thoughts about how and why women have been second class citizens in the world. So, the first thought that crossed my mind was \u2018Women Suffrage\u2019, which was about the voting rights of women in America.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3685,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[68],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2492","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-wie-blogs"],"yoast_head":"\n
Yes, there is a lot of Hope!!!<\/p>\r\n